Friday, September 30, 2022

Bernard before the war (part 2)

We think this is Bernard's maternal grandfather, Jonathan Webb.


For part two, he is in Redditch and Hinchley.

REDDITCH 1906-1909

This marked the heyday of my educational career which centred in the Secondary School, headmaster Mr William Rigby, head mistress Miss Robinson where I was an unruly pupil. This however did not prevent me from being one of the first to win a Worcestershire Intermediate Scholarship. Another winner from the school was Stanley Guise, the son of a local jeweller. From that we worked on together and got London Matriculation, the first ones in the school's short history. By the way, it was in the scholarship exam I really showed up. There was a physics paper in it and we did not do physics as yet at the school. Mr Rigby gave me an elementary text book on it, said "Read that and you'll do". I read it and "did", heading the whole county in physics! And the director[?] of Education made a point of seeing me.

I became friends with Kingsley Simmons the son of a Society Steward and furniture dealer, at the instigation of his step-mother I think. We were not particularly suited to one another but maintained the companionship throughout my stay in Redditch. He had a boy and girl "sweetheart" affair with Elsie Wheeler and subsequently married her. Elsie had an elder sister Laura with whom I was paired off! Not surprisingly nothing came of our pairing off.

Redditch presented a complete contrast to South Bank. No long straight, dead level granny[?] streets were here. Instead the town rose steeply from the level of the railway station to a wide open triangular space from the centre of which the parish church, St Stephen's, raised its lofty spire, a landmark for miles around.

Turning right at the first corner of the triangle, you went into Evesham Street, the principal shopping street and then climbed Front Hill and Mount Pleasant, the way to the Ridgeway, which was about two or so miles long and gave magnificent views across Worcestershire to the bold line of the Malvern Hills. Our hosts when we first arrived were Mr and Mrs Geo. Leach who lived in a stately mansion in the highest part of town and kept a carriage and pair like quite a number of the mill and factory hierarchy! Mr Leach was general manager of S. Allcock and Co., world renowned for making fishing tackle. So there was no lack of variety of life here. King Simmons had an elderly uncle, one Martin James who owned a small fishing tackle factory beside the Congregational Church in Evesham St and who gave me an open invitation to visit the  works which I very much appreciated and availed myself of quite a lot.. There, I was always thrilled  at the skill of Mr Hill, the rod maker who could take a broom handle  - "handle" sound better than "stick" - put one end of it in his hollow spindle lathe, cut it in exact halves with a thrust of his chisel, tape off the ends and make a shallow groove in the middle for the mounting for the reel, which mountings he would then make from a length of brass tube and they would fit perfectly on the handle all without ever using a rule or measure.

The world-renowned fishing tackle factory, Standard Works, was on Clive St, north of the station; more information here. He does not say where they lived, but Edna, his future wife, lived on Mount Pleasant, which he does mention. Fishing tackle seems to be the financial basis of the town's ecomony.

At Redditch Father promoted a great debt-clearing programme for the whole circuit culminating in a 3 day banquet in the Public Hall. It was completely successful. Enid took a teaching post in Crabbs Cross, two miles away and all hills! In the evenings she studied for her School Teachers certificate which she obtained with a distinction in "Princples of Education". Harold took a teaching job in Reigate  and Ronald entered the Civil Service as a Second Division Clerk and posted to Dublin.

Father had an invitation to Hinckley in Leics and thither we in due course repaired!

His "farewell" service at Bates Hill sticks in my memory. The church - it seated 900 - was full and the service ended with the traditional Wesyelan practice of all joining in "God be with you till we meet again" and didn't they sing it. That was the last time I heard it sung.

Hinchley is between Coventry and Leicester...

HINCKLEY (1909-1912)

Hinckley proved a great contrast. Like Redditch it was a factory town but it seemed to have none of the refinements that made Redditch so pleasant.

Father of course was Super. of the circuit with Rev Stanley N. Hoare M.A. as No 2. He was a very remarkable man: his degree was Cambridge with Honours; he was Connexional[?] Examiner in Hebrew. He knowledge of music far exceeded his accomplishment on the piano, though this was by no means ordinary.

For myself, I studied (!) at home, first to follow in Ron's footsteps as a Civil Servant and when my attempt got me nowhere to try for Inter. B,Sc., this on the advice of old Rigby with whom I kept in contact. It was my final misfortune that this too failed. Mr Hoare had offered me his help which I reluctantly declined maths being my forte and chemistry my undoing.

I am not sure quite what he means here.  "Inter. B,Sc." could mean an intercalate degree; one with a extra year to do one subject more in depth, but seems to apply to medical degrees. Could otherwise in international or interim? The connection between refusing help and good at maths is also unclear.

It was at Hinckley that I thought I had met my partner for life in the person of the Organist's daughter, but mother wisely  insisted that I must have a career first and I had to give up the idea. 

Curious he does not name the object of his desire, after he had named they girl he got paired up with in Redditch.

Father's predecessor was named Wollerton and he was the minister in S. Africa who married father and mother! He returned to Hinckley one weekend to take the Sunday  School Anniversary service and father went to Kings Lynn to supply for him. Result - an invitation to father to go there when his ministry in Hinchley ended.

As churches went, the one at Stockwell (Hinchley) was reasonably up to date but across the side street was a much older building were John Wesley himself had preached.

Beside the Old Church was the backyard of Fred Burton's grocers' shop, the shop itself being in Castle Street, Hinchley's main thoroughfare. Fred Burton and L Joone(?), boot and shoe maker of Earl Shilton were the circuit stewards who welcomed us to Hinchley and installed us in our home, Goulbourn[?] House in Burbage Rd. Fred was good local preacher and leader of a young men's Society Class which I joined. It was regarded as a nursery school for local preachers but actually it was father's colleague Stanley Hoare who put me up for preaching. I fear I made a poor start but I got through the examination and was duly qualified (June 1912) before we left for kings Lynn.

Flying was in its infancy at the time and I can remember getting up at 4 am and cycling to Melton Mowbray (24 miles) and then a further 5 miles to Saxby to see the competitors in the "Round Britain" air race. They had straggled so much I saw only one. However this was the time of the London - Manchester air race sponsored by the Daily Mail and I saw Claude Graham White fly over Nuneaton so low that he had to rise to clear ground obstructions. He finally came down at Lichfield. Meanwhile Paulham flying high, passed him and won the £10,000 prize.

About this time, Harold in Reigate caught diphtheria and on his recovery was invalided home where a family council, myself excluded as too young, decided he ought to study art and he began training at Leicester Art School for his A.R.C.A. We had several visits from Ronald, each time on a different and bigger motor cycle. Enid had stayed behind at Redditch where she was not very happy but having met George Wright, a small maker of fishing flies, she became engaged to him.

Enid staying in Redditch seems to have established roots for the family. They would return there when Joseph retired, and of course Bernard would meet Edna there. So a good job she met George, who, like everyone else in the town, made fishing tackle.

There is a large blank space at this point, then the next sentence seems to be missing any context; was he intending to add something in the gap?

Father was finding it hard to make ends meet, so to save some train fare Harold and I cycled to Bourne and joined the family there.

The third and final part is King's Lynn and going to war.

Thursday, September 29, 2022

Bernard before the war (part 1)

Bernard wrote some notes about his life up to the start of WW1.

I was born at Johannesburg on 7th May 1893 while father, Rev Joseph George Benson and mother Jessie Benson (nee Webb) were on trek from the Transvaal to Capetown to sail for England where father was to have his first furlong after 11 years in S. Africa. With father and mother were my older sisiter Enid and two elder brothers, Harold Washington B and Ronald Hill B.

Of the journey home (to England) naturally I know nothing. I gathered that we went to live in Merton (S. London) where the railway engines were brown! Father had suffered from a severe attack of malaria and was fond by the Medical Board to be unfit to return to S. Africa. Conference appointed him to the moss Lane area of Manchester - a most unsuitable appointment for both him and mother too.

I have few recollections of Manchester. One is of standing on a big rock in a blue navy uniform under a shock of curly hair to be photographed. (Photograph was one of father's hobbies and I believe this episode was probably before the introduction of the "dry plate"). There was also a day excursion to New Brighton where a black hulk stood high and dry on the sands. It was a disastrous day for me. On the way home we shared a compartment with a little girl just recovering from scarlet fever and I, then just four years old, caught it. Harold and Ronald were sent to Merton, out of harms way! Enid stayed at home with a bottle of preventative medicine. To be sure of things she got hold of the bottle and drank the lot - and soon joined me in the sickroom. In the meantime I developed diphtheria and my survival became very doubtful. However the doctor lanced my neck in three places (I still have the scars) and withdrew the toxin from my system and by the Grace of God I recovered.

The illness overlapped the time when father should have changed stations - he was appointed to Rose Hill church, Derby. Our home became 18 Rose Hill Rd in due course.

Merton is a region in London that includes Wimbledon, Mitcham and Morden. The church in Manchester could be Upper Moss Lane Primitive Methodist chapel in Hume, Manchester

His WW2 identity card notes "scars on neck" as a distinguishing feature, so this must be the source.

DERBY (1897-1900)

At Derby I started school, didn't like it and played truant! The first moving picture show, a slapstick comedy with lots of whitewash, I ever saw was here. We used to go too for picnics to Little Eaton on the sides of a steep, wooded valley with the R. Derwent(?) flowing swiftly along its narrow bottom, a lovely spot and ideal for such a purpose. It was from Derby the family went to Bakewell for a summer holiday. I stood in awe at its huge underpass mill wheel and revelled in the walk along the R. Wye to Haddon Hall. There was a fascinating walk in Derby itself: to a level crossing where one could watch express trains from London with a "7'6"  single engine and I used to think it would be great fun to have one big wheel for a hoop! Kenneth Lawrence was born here.

In August 1900 we moved to Crewe via the North Stafford Rly, voted by the family to be the dirtiest train they had ever been on!

I cannot find a Rose Hill Road, but there was is a Rose Hill Street, with a Rose Hill Weslyan Methodist Church, demolished in 1991.

The loco would be one like this one.


CREW (1900-1903) 

Our address being 3 Heathfield Avenue, I went to Hightown Weslyan day school, headmaster Mr Hinchcliffe.

It was here I made the acquaintance of sundry outlying farmers, Mr Whittaker of Warmingham and the Hall of Minshull Vernon. The latter bordered the railway, the main Euston to Carlisle railway and full of interest. Especially I remember a harvest supper and being specially driven home (4 miles) after it. I spent a week at Whittaker Vernon, being kicked out of the cowshed by a cow didn't spoil it. Whittakers specialised in cheese; the making is so fascinating to watch.

Two events remain vividly in my memory. First the opening of the cottage Hospital when all the school children paraded on the Park and second one summery Sunday evening when there was a stir in the town, crowds parading the streets and everybody chattering excitedly. I went out to see what it was all about and fairly raced home - the Boer war was over. Father and Mother both of whom had personal friends on both sides were intensely overjoyed and mother got out her favourite music - Mendelsohn's Songs Without Words and played the liveliest of them.

I also remember signing as a subscriber to the 20th Century Fund of the Church and the signature is there in the Central Hall, Westminster to this day.

In August 1903 we moved top Middlesbrough (South Bank).

Little Brother, Maurice Howes was born at Crewe

The house looks to still be there. Minshull Vernon is still a tiny hamlet.

MIDDLESBROUGH (SOUTH BANK) 1903-1906

I think I must have begun to take notice of people and things about this time, beginning with the journey up when I first saw an ocean going ship, just a glimpse at Stockton, then a view as we ran parallel to Middlesbrough Docks.

South Bank proved to be a rather dreary town, with blast furnaces at Cargo Fleet on the way into it and more on the way out of it towards Grangetown and Redcar. Still we were given a warm welcome by an elderly man James Ryder, who was a pillar of the church and a man of standing with the N.E. Railway Co. We nicknamed him "The Grand Old Man" and it fitted him perfectly. We lived almost opposite the church at 120 Middlesbrough Rd and I went to the adjacent Wesleyan school, Headmaster Mr G W Stevens. After a year there I went to Middlesbrough High School, two miles away in Middlesbrough proper. Mostly I walked except at midday when Ronald gave me a lift home to dinner on the steps of his newly acquired bicycle.

I did reasonably well at school though I never took to the Headmaster a Mr W Edwards whom I regarded as a bit of a fop. Long errands to other churches took me to Grangetown and Eston, this latter being a delightful village nestling at the foot of the Cleveland Hills. The tops of the hills were moorland covered with bilberry (or lingberry) bushes. Halfway up the hillside were two winding engines used to pull strings of loaded iron ore trucks out of the mines on the hills. One was operated by a stout round-faced Mr Hooper and the other by a tall, lean man[?, looks more like desk!] Mr Hatfield. Bother were local preachers.

Ronald achieved some distinction at the High School by winning firsts in both the Cambridge Junior and Senior exams. The Head wanted him to try for a University Scholarship at Oxford but had no ideas for a subsequent career and father turned it down. Enid and Harold became pupil teachers and attended the Hugh Bell School in Middlesbrough two days a weekfor the "pupil" part of it.

Little sister Celia Gwendoline was born here, I had to go to Middlesbrough to fetch a nurse for her.

[The page ends here, but he seems to continue still at Middlesbrough]

I sat for one of the Sunday School's Scripture Exams and came in third in the district, being beaten by the two sons of another Wesleyan Minister. As one of the two was yunger than I , the family did not think much of my effort.

When father and mother first married, they naturally discussed father's future as a missionary and agreed that it could be very helpful to him if he applied the wonders of the universe to illustrate and enhance his preaching. So they set aside a sum of money each year to buy equipment - a small microscope and a 3" refracting telescope to begin with. When he found he was to stay in England the microscope developed into a good binocular and the telescope to a 6" reflector. He got a local cabinet maker, I think in Derby[?], to make him a portable octagonal observatory and at South Bank he erected in n a strip of church land beside the church. On fine nights he took oner or more of us children outwith to learn some astronomy. Harold was an excellent artist and made coloured drawings of what he saw, especially I remember of Jupiter and Saturn.

In our last year there was an eclipse of he sun and father attached the camera to the telescope eye-piece and took a photo of it - to the detriment of the camera which caught fire in the process, a vivid example of the sun's power.

The three years soon went and we moved to Redditch, in Worcestershire. It was a long journey made much more comfortable by "the Grand Old Man's" consideration in reserving two complete compartments for us from Darlington. We travelled the 44 miles to York (from D) in 41 minutes. Some trains

[the sentence just stops there, part way along a line]

Middlesbrough Rd is still there, but few of the buildings remain. There is a map of South Bank from around that time here. It shows just how the town is sandwiched between two huge factory complexes; easy to see why he considered it dreary.




Tuesday, September 27, 2022

South Africa and Back

In 1820, Sarah Wills sailed to South Africa, with her mother (also Sarah), her father having died nine years earlier. The ship was the Northampton, which sailed from Gravesend on 13 December 1819 (yes, okay, it was 1819, but it was part of the 1820 settlers), as part of "Clark's Party". On the same ship, albeit with the "Pigot's Party" was Charles William Webb. 

Charles was a wheelwright, and I suspect he paid his fare to South Africa by becoming an indentured servant. He later became a millwright and painter, and for some reason was known as "Doctor".

He married Sarah Wills 25 December 1823, in Grahamstown, and went on to have fourteen children with her. Though married in an Anglican church, they would later become Methodists.

Their eighth child was Jonathan Webb, born 24 Oct 1835, and baptised as a Methodist. He would go on to marry Matilda Ann Hill, also born in Grahamstown, to parents who had emigrated from England, her mother, Cecelia Jane Eastland, in 1820 too, but on another ship, while her father, John Hill had arrived three years earlier than that.

Jonathan trained to be a Methodist minister, and during that time was sent on 3-month trip into darkest Africa. He let his studies lapse, and ended up getting demoted, and consequently became a wheelwright like his father, though it appears he also set up a church. He inherited a farm called Hancock Grange, though it is not clear how. 

They had nine children. One of his daughters, I think Evelyn, the oldest, died quite young when she drowned in a waddy. 

Jessie was the second oldest; she married Joseph Benson.

 

Joseph was from Yorkshire...

He got a job at Hollingrake (or Hollindrake) and Clegg, a local store, when his father deserted the family, giving up his plan to be a teacher, but later left that to be a minster, and his brother Tom took over the job. He trained at Richmond, Surrey, and went to South Africa in 1883, where he met Jessie.

They married at the Wesleyan chapel in Potchefstroom. They had five children in Africa, but had to return to England due to his ill health in 1894, possibly Malaria. The last of the five, Bernard, was born in Johannesburg, while they were in the process of moving - possibly delayed by the birth of a new baby.

Back in England, Joseph worked at a series of churches in England, the policy being to more a preacher on after three years, the first to Moss Lane, Manchester. As Bernard would later say "A most unsuitable appointment for both him and for mother too". Whilst there, they visited New Brighton, and on the way back Bernard contracted scarlet fever from a girl they shared a compartment with on the train; he was four at the time.

From 1897 to 1900, they were in Derby, then Crewe to 1903, Middlesborough to 1906, Redditch to 1909 (where Bernard was one of the first to win a Worcestershire Intermediate Scholarship, despite being "an unruly pupil"). 

Did Enid settle here? She would be 22 when they left, and it would explain why they returned.

The rest of the family moved on to Hinckley, where Bernard thought he had met the love of his life, the organist's daughter, but his mother insisted he have a career first! They moved to Kings Lynn in 1912, where Bernard was a teacher for a while (something they all seem to have tried), though not a very good one by his reckoning.

While there, war broke out, and Bernard went to fight the Hun!

Joseph and Jessie continued to move around the country every three years until Joseph retired due to ill health in 1923, and settled in with Celia at the forge (I think) in Redditch, near Enid.

Grandma Benson's Lecture


 I am not sure of the background here, but we think this was a lecture Jessie Benson have to the Women's Institute in the 1930s, about her life in South Africa.

It is not my intention tonight to speak of South African Missions generally, but specially of the mission to Bechucialand. Before beginning this story, however, I should like to say a little about our older Mission Station, Thaba 'Nchu, from which the BecOnaland Mission was an offshoot - for the natives at Thaba 'Nchu are a branch of the great Bechuana nation.

Thaba' Nchu is a large and important native town about 30 miles from Bloemfontein; it was the residence of an independent chief name Moroka, whose country joined the Orange Free State. Our mission there had been established over 40 years and two missionaries were stationed there. The Rev James Scott was the super at the time which I speak, and my father, the Rev Jonathan Webb, was his colleague. The town spread along one side of a river, and on the other side were the houses of the missionaries, our chapel, and two houses occupied by traders. The Church of England also had a mission and church there. In the vicinity rises a large mountain; the dark colour of the rocks which form it, and the scanty vegetation, obtained for it the name of Thaba 'Nchu, Mount Black. This mountain gave the town its name.

Our chapel was built of stone; inside the rafters of the roof were all visible, for there was no ceiling; the floor was of earth, beaten down and hardened. The pulpit was placed at one side. It was a large building and was used on week days as a school. On Sundays a row of forms was placed round the pulpit, and the floor in front of them covered with grass mats of native manufacture. One form was reserved for the chief and his attendants, or members of his family - Moroka frequently attended the Services. The other seats were for the Missionaries' wives and families and for any other white people who might chance to come. The rest of the space was given up to the Bechuana, who came in and squatted on the floor where they pleased; they were orderly, however, those who arrived first sat as near as possible to the forms, and those who followed sat as near as they could - there was no demand for back seats, late corners were welcome to them. The women invariably sat on the floor, a few brought mats; some of the men brought little stools made of wood roughly shaped, with thongs of raw hide stretched across to form the seat. Many a time the chapel was packed to the door and people stood outside to hear what they could.

The members were carefully trained in Methodism as it used to be; Class meetings; Love Feasts, and Fast Days, were regularly observed. Love Feasts were held in the afternoon. Mrs Scott and my mother took turns to provide buns for the feast; these were of fair size, slightly sweetened, and a few currants added. They were carried in on trays, and placed in the pulpit, also several buckets of water, and a lot of small basins, such as are used by Boers and natives instead of cups. I cannot tell you* the number of members, but it was large, and all came who possibly could. I wish I could make you see that scene as I recall it; though only a child of 5 or 6 it made an impression which has never faded. The eager, expectant faces of the people through the opening portions of the service, the hearty singing and fervent responses. But the climax was reached when the buns were handed round. Each member received a whole bun and a basin of water. And how they enjoyed those buns! A school boy with a large slice of wedding cake could not have felt more satisfaction. Some ate with their eyes closed, the better to enjoy the taste. This part of the feast was soon over. Then followed the experiences, and there was no waiting, many were eager to speak of the great things God had done for them. It was to them indeed, a Feast of Love.

A Native wedding was a curious mixture of civilization and barbarism; the Xtian families did their best to follow European customs on these occasions. A maid-servant of my Mother's was married at Thaba 'Nchu; she was a plump good natured girl, named Annie. A few weeks before the wedding she went into Bloemfontein, and there purchased a piece of pretty blue material for her wedding dress. Of course there was no dressmaker in Thaba 'Nchu, so she came to her former mistress and begged her to make the dress. This my mother did, turning out a nice dress, and the girl was well pleased. About a week before the wedding the bridegroom elect went to Bloemfontein to make purchases; there he saw a white muslin with a pattern of black leaves. This took his fancy; he bought some and presented it to Annie, asking her to make it her wedding dress. Again she came to my mother for help, but my mother was not very willing to undertake the fresh task. She had no sewing machine, and five little girls of her own to sew for, so she had little leisure. She tried to persuade the girl to be content with the blue dress, but all in vain. There was no one else to whom she could send the girl, and unwilling to grieve her, she kindly promised to make the dress, and Annie was happy once more. The couple being members were married in the chapelithe bride in her white and black muslin, 'and a white straw hat with gay trimmings; the bridegroom m ordinary European dress. Many of the friends were in native dress, a gaily coloured blanket slung across the shoulders, or a kaross of sheep skin, with many strings of bright beads around neck, arms, and ankles.

When the ceremony was over, the bridal party formed a procession and marched all around the town singing. You know that old round, Come follow, follow? Well, they sang that to the same air as we do, and on this occasion they sang 'To the wedding' instead of 'to the greenwood'. (Those-are-the Bechuana-wortleia—etc) After about two hours marching and singing, the party repaired to their but where a feast was prepared. The chief item on the bill of fare was beef. An ox is killed, the flesh well stewed with the bones and marrow, so that it makes a very rich food, and on this the guests regale themselves. Of bread and cakes they know nothing. Their ordinary food is a very thick porridge made of kafir corn meal - kafir corn is a sort of millet - when this fails they use maize meal. With this they take milk, sometimes fresh, but more often thick and sour. Meat is a rare luxury, so it is all the more appreciated when they can have their fill at a wedding. The preparations are extremely simple. The guests are received in the large circular enclosure which surrounds each hut; they seat themselves on the ground in a circle; seats of honour are provided for bride and bridegroom, these may be camp stools, or the family may have attained to the dignity of chairs. Some of the three- legged pots in which the stew has been cooked are carried into the centre of the circle, the stew is served out with wooden ladles, into small wooden bowls, and eaten with wooden spoons. No one is at all concerned it the supply of spoon comes short - fingers will do instead. Feasting and singing continue all through the afternoon, and often late in the evening. These are the general proceedings at a Christian wedding. At a heathen wedding much native beer is consumed, with the usual result - intoxication, and wild, unrestrained revelry.

Among the many trials which befall a missionary's wife, one occasionally has a humorous side which is seen when the painful part has passed away. Such was the incident which I shall now relate. The chief, Moroka, was very friendly with our missionaries, and frequently visited them in their homes. These visits were quite without ceremony, the only attendant on the chief being an old man. Moroka was never seen abroad without this man, who had a habit of walking close behind his lord, this earned for him the name of 'the Chief's Shadow', and he was seldom called by any other. This old man had taken a great fancy to my mother's tea-cosy; it was of bright red cashmere, with a pattern braided in black - that was the fancy work of those days - and it was thickly wadded, and lined with flannel. He thought it would make an excellent cap, and, not being bashful he asked for it more than once, but wa, refused. My mother valued it as the work of her sister; it was the only one she had, and it could not be replaced in that uncivilized country.

She had several times put it out of sight when the chief and his shadow were seen approaching; but one day they came, and the cosy stood on the sideboard. After greeting the chief, my mother left the room to prepare coffee for her guests. Coffee, with cake or bread were always offered, and never refused; indeed, the chief used to accept the whole plate of cake, give a piece to his shadow, and eat the rest himself. The chief ate talking to my father, while his shadow feasted his eyes on the coveted cosy. Imagine my mother's feelings, when, on entering the room again, she saw the Chief's Shadow sitting with ha tea cosy on his head! In no way abashed, he laughed, and told her it fitted him well, would she give it to him? This time his request was granted, for my mother had no desire to put that tea-cosy on her tea-pot again - and you would not wonder if you knew the habits of these people. So the tea cosy became a cap, and the old man walked proudly out wearing it. I don't know how he stood that thick wadding after being accustomed to a bare head, but vanity is the same in a Mochuana as in an Englishman, and his vanity enabled him to bear the discomfort; when we left Thaba 'Nchu he still wore a faded dirty cap, which had once been a bright, pretty tea-cosy.

In the year 1870 the Missionary Society resolved to send a Missionary to Moshaneng, to visit the people, and bring back a report. My father was chosen for that work, and he decided to take with him his wife and four little girls, the eldest of whom was 8 years and the youngest 18 months; of these I was the second in age. My Father's sister, who was staying with us at the time, also accompanied us. The journey had to be taken in a bullock wagon, and the whole trip was expected to occupy three month. It was a serious undertaking - Moshaneng was over 300 miles away in the interior, in that part of Bechuanaland which borders on the Khalahari Desert, and the way lay through wild, unoccupied country, with heft, and there, at long intervals, a homestead belonging to Boers of the poorer class. Supplies for 3 months had to be carried in the wagon, and as much baking as possible was done in advance. Rusks were made in large quantities, as they keep for months. Rock buns, small biscuits and cakes also were prepared. Butter and eggs were fairly plentiful and cheap, and could be freely used but sugar, currants, etc had to be used sparingly.

The wagon was an ordinary tent wagon, about 18ft long by 5ft wide, and was provided with a front box and a back box, these boxes are fitted to the wagon and used to pack provisions and crockery for daily use; on the front the driver sits. Inside there was a kartel - this is a frame of wood with thongs of raw hide stretched across and interlaced - a sort of bedstead. It was about 6 ft long, fitted to the wagon from side to side, and secured in its place by strong thongs at each corner. On this the bedding was placed. Under the kartel was a space about the same as under a bedstead; here were stored the flour bags, and other dry provisions, also the boxes of clothing. Between the kartel and the back box was an empty space, about 6 ft by 5 ft. At night this was a second bedroom, screened from the other by a curtain, and the bed made on the floor of the wagon. This bedding was rolled up in the day time. In wet weather this space was the dining room, indeed it served many purposes.

On each side of the wagon was a long row of canvas pockets, called side bags, these were a great convenience; in one the combs and brushes were kept; in another towels and soap; sewing materials also had a place, and one was always supplied with cakes or biscuits to give to the children, when they grew hungry during the long treks of 4 or 5 hours; narrow pockets at the ends, held each a quart bottle, in which the milk was carried - when there was any - and water for drinking. The outside of the wagon was fitted with a small box on one side, in which the extra gear for the oxen was kept; on iron hooks underneath the water barrels and buckets were hung, and in the space under the back of the wagon, between the wheels, a large carrier was hung by chains, this is called a 'trap', a shallow packing case was secured to it, where the saucepans, kettle, etc and a store of fuel were packed. I have described the wagon at some length, that you may have some idea of the capacity of these vehicles. They have no springs, and jolt a great deal even on good road; but no springs would stand the rough, unbroken country which has to be traversed. A gun and ammunition were a necessity, not for offensive purposes, but in hope of keeping the larder fairly stocked.

All being ready, a start was made; beside the 7 I have mentioned, who might be called inside passengers, there were the driver and leader, native men. The driver's name was Mokiva, he was a careful trustworthy man, and a good Christian. We were soon in a country teeming with game. Myriads of springbok were seen every day browsing on the plains; as they moved slowly along feeding, numbers of them were constantly leaping high in the air, over the backs of their fellows, covering yards in their spring. When startled they fled like the wind, and nearly half of them seemed to be in the air, so often and so rapidly did they spring. It was a sight not to be forgotten. Buffalo, wildebeest, hartebeest, zebras were common sights; zebras were easily alarmed, and we seldom got near them , but I remember several times seeing large herds scudding away over the veldt. Giraffes, too, were very timid, but occasionally we caught glimpses of them, their long necks stretched up among the foliage of the camel-thorn - their favourite food.

One day three lions were seen devouring a quagga; they were less than a quarter of a mile away, but did not observe us; so the wagon was quietly turned, and a wide circuit made to avoid them. We did not leave the road, as there was no road to leave. The compass directed our course, and the driver steered us, and believe me, careful steering was required. In the wooded country the boughs of the trees were so thick and low, that often the wagon could not pass under them, and the way had to be cleared with the axe; more than once a fresh route had to be chosen. Then there were also fallen trees to be avoided. In the open country numberless holes made by the meerkat, a little burrowing creature, and the larger holes of jackals and wolves, were a source of danger, especially when hidden by long grass; last but not least, the innumerable antheaps, varying in height from a few inches to several feet, were so close together, that it was impossible to miss them and many a tremendous jolt did they give us. Yet never once was the wagon capsized.

One evening at dusk, my Father was looking out for a suitable place to spend the night; we children were tired and wanted our supper, and seeing a large tree near, begged him to stop by it; but he preferred another tree with less undergrowth, some yards further on, so there we outspanned. Soon a large fire was burning, and we were seated round it; all about us was the dark forest, and above the sky, bright with stars; preparations for supper were going forward; from the frying pan over the fire came the delicious odour of venison steaks, sharpening the appetite; the children were talking and laughing merrily, and all was peace and content. Suddenly from the tree which we had passed, came a loud, terrible howl, and a large wolf sprang out, and rushed away into the darkness. The smell of the venison had reached his nostrils, and wakened him as he lay in his den, but the sight of the fire was too much for him, and he fled. We were much alarmed as you may suppose, and frightened crying took the place of merry laughter; but soon our fears were calmed, and quiet restored.

My father was no sportsman, and used his gun only to keep up the supply of fresh meat; he was not a good marksman either, and if game had not been so plentiful that it was difficult to miss, we might have fared badly. The supply of meat was running short one day, when buffalo were sighted, they were feeding on open ground, whilst our wagon was among bush. Taking his gun, my Father set off to try for one; he had not attempted such large game before. On getting within range, he fired and one buffalo dropped, and lay as though dead; the rest of the herd galloped off. My father approached the animal slowly, preparing his gun for another charge, though it seemed needless. I should tell you that it was one of those old fashioned guns which were loaded through the muzzle with a ramrod - a very slow process. Before he could load the gun, the buffalo suddenly sprang up, and danced round in circles; then catching sight of my father, it made a dash for him. He turned and ran, hoping to gain the shelter of the bush, for a wounded buffalo is a dangerous foe; the buffalo gained rapidly, and the chance of escape seemed almost gone, when suddenly the animal wheeled round and galloped after its companions. Most of this scene was visible from the wagon, and my mother's excitement and anxiety were naturally very great, till she was assured of her husband's safety.

At a place called Lotlakana, (little need) the natives had been rendered very wild and suspicious by Boer raiders, who had kidnapped their children, and when our wagon was observed they hid their children. Here the first signs of superstition were seen. The wagon was outspanned near the river, for Sunday's rest, in the morning the girls came down to draw water, but before doing so they lay down, and wetted their stomachs with water, using incantations; this was for the purpose of counteracting any witchcraft which the missionary might have used to kidnap them. Before the day was over, however, my father had gained their confidence, and they gathered together to hear the gospel.

Next evening we reached Mafiking; this was not the chief's town in those days, but it was full of interest to the missionary, for here he found a chapel of burnt brick, built by a wandering German, and paid for the native teacher and people; when well filled it held 70. This native teacher was a brother of the chief Montsioa; his name was Molema. When a young man he took a journey of over 300 miles to Thaba 'Nchu, to hear the gospel, and was converted under the Rev Jno. Edwards. He went into school among the children, soon learned to read, and then returned to preach to his own people. This was about the year 1830, while Dr. Livingstone was still at Kolobeng, so that Molema was now an elderly man. He was the first native teacher to carry the gospel to his people.

Leaving Mafiking the journey was continued, and four days later Moshaneng was reached. Some time before, Montsioa had been driven from his country by the Boers, and had taken refuge with the Bangwaketse (people of the crocodile); they gave him the place called Moshaneng, which means 'in the morning'; it was about 12 miles west of their own chief town, Kanye. Here he lived a long time, waiting for an opportunity to return to his own country.

On our arrival at Moshaneng a native hut was lent us; it was a very poor one - the centre pole was decayed, and big hairy caterpillars used to drop down from it. Here we stayed a month, my father teaching and preaching. We found about 60 members under the care of native leaders. These leaders had been converted under Molema, had followed their chief when he fled, and had carried on the work. My mother was seized with a severe attack of fever, and in that poor hut she lay for days, with her life in danger. A trader in the neighbourhood was able to supply quinine, and under God's blessing she recovered. Thankful indeed were my parents for the presence of my aunt. She used to teach us part of every day, and take us out for walks.

One day I was left behind as a punishment, with a lesson to learn. Having finished the task and feeling lonely, I set out alone to meet the others. Half way down the long slope which led to the stream, a native man stopped me, and asked where I was going. I could speak Sechuana quite well, and answered him readily. He looked all round, but no one was in sight. 'You must not go further alone', he said, ' down there', pointing to the river, ' lives a big wolf, and he might catch you!' Thoroughly frightened, I began to cry, so he took my hand and led me back to the hut, and, with another kindly warning went his way. What he said was quite true; we heard the howling of that wolf many a night, and several times he came prowling near our hut. They are cowardly creatures and though they would seize a solitary child, would fear to attack a grown person.

The return journey was made towards the end of the dry season, and water was very scarce. Then was often seen that illusion called a 'mirage'; as the oxen crawled slowly over the dry, dusty country, there would appear before us as it were lakes of water, with trees and islands; the trees were often real enough but the water vanished as the spot was approached. On one occasion the oxen had been two days without water, and the supply in the barrels was very low; anxious eyes scanned the country eagerly for signs of water, and in the afternoon what appeared to be two large pools of water were seen at no great distance. A halt was made, and my father proceeded to the place saying 'That is no mirage!' He was right, but none the less, he met with a severe disappointment, for on reaching the spot he found two large salt-pans; the water had all dried up, leaving a deposit of salt on the surface, which, in the distance, looked like water. All about were spoor, or footprints, of wild animals, even of lions. Again the weary oxen moved on, distressed with thirst. As evening came on, to the great joy of all, water was found sufficient for all needs. Such salt pans as I have mentioned are common in those parts - in summer they are shallow lakes - in winter they usually dry up. There is large salt pan near Bloemhof which was profitably worked, and yielded a good supply of salt annually. Such were some of the events of that journey - in due time Thaba 'Nchu was reached, and ordinary life resumed.

Nearly two years later, my father again visited Moshaneng, and that time he went alone. A week or so earlier my mother and her children had started on a long journey south, to Grahamstown, with the intention of leaving my elder sister and myself with our relatives there to be educated. This was done, and nearly 7 years parents and children were entirely separated. Many missionaries have to undergo a similar trial in order that their children may be educated.

My mother arrived at Thaba 'Nchu about the same time as my father returned from his lonely journey. The report he brought was so satisfactory that the Society decided to establish a mission at Moshaneng, and my father being already known to the people was chosen for the work of Pioneer Missionary; he was the first European to live there. Many were the hardships and difficulties which they had to encounter. Their first home was two Kafir huts place side by side; they have no windows, the light can only enter by the low door. The three children took measles; the cases were slight and they were allowed to dress, but were kept in one hut. In the other but lay my mother, unable to stand on her feet, or give any help. My father and a little native maid had to do everything for them.

On the many journeys which had to be taken among the surrounding towns and villages, it was often impossible for my mother to go, and she would be alone on the station with the children for 2 and 3 weeks at a time, sometimes longer.

The missionary needed some knowledge of medicine, for the people came to him with their sicknesses; the worse the dose administered the more efficacious they thought it. One old man was very troublesome; he was always coming for medicine, and there was nothing the matter with him, so one day my father gave him a special pill - it was composed of bitter aloes, asafoetida and one or two other things - of that sort, made into a pill with soap. This he was told to chew slowly, and being watched all the while, he obeyed. It cured him!

Anyone who knows mosquitoes would consider them a strange instrument to be used in saving life. Yet they did this great service once. When returning from the District Meeting one year, the Bet river was reached in the evening. The river seemed passable, and in the rainy season the rule is - cross a river as soon as you come to it, if it is passable, and outspan on the other side. But this drift or ford was too dangerous to be attempted in the dark, so the wagon was outspanned in what seemed a safe place. No sooner was the lantern lit, than the mosquitos began to swarm into the wagon, stinging everybody. The lantern was put out, the sail let down in front, but all to no purpose, - even the oxen grew restless, and it was evident that neither supper nor sleep could be obtained in that spot. Orders were given to inspan again and move to higher ground; this was done, and not another mosquito was heard that night!

When they rose early in the morning, what a sight met their eyes! The river had come down in the night and flooded the country far on either side, and the spot from which the mosquitoes had driven the wagon was now deep under water. Near was a Boer homestead, a very poor place, but the people were kind hearted, and did what little lay in their power for the travellers; the wagon was drawn up close to the house and there they waited for six weeks before the river again became passable.

When Montsioa was trying to obtain British protection that he might return to his country, he desired my father, in whom he had great confidence, to accompany him when he visited the Governor, and to speak for him. The result of that meeting and others which followed was that Bechuanaland was taken under British protection. Montsioa then returned to his own country and finally settled in Mafikeng, making it his chief town. The name of this place is both mis-spelt and mis-pronounced now a days - the Sechuana word is 'Mafikeng' not 'Mafeking' It means the place of the Rocks. When the chief and his people removed, it became necessary for the missionary to move also; so my father settled among them at Mafiking. During the years he laboured among them, the work prospered, and 100 members were added to the 60 he found there.

In telling you this story, my hope is that it may awaken in you a stronger and more active sympathy with our Missionaries. Try to realize their life on those far away stations - the loneliness - for months, even years, elapsed without the sight of a white face; the longing for sympathy - for someone to talk to, especially in time of sickness. Think of the privations which they endured. In summer fresh meat was seldom obtainable, and the supply of fowls and eggs very irregular and poor. In winter there was no butter and often no milk; while sugar and other groceries had to be most carefully and sparingly used lest the supply should fail before more could be obtained. Once this happened, and a terribly hard time it was for them all, my father had to take a long and arduous journey to Kimberley, 250 miles, to get the necessaries of life.

Think of all this, and compare it with your comfortable homes, and own lives. How much have you sacrificed that the heathen may have the gospel preached to them? When you are about to indulge in some luxury, think of the self-denial practised by some of your fellow christians, and ask yourself whether it would not be better for you to give the money to Christ, even thought the amount be small, rather than to spend i on yourself. Put it in the missionary box, and when you have done this a few times you will begin to realise the blessedness of giving, for Jesus himself said 'It is more blessed to give than to receive'.

Monday, September 26, 2022

Bernard's Family


This was taken in 1947 to 49, and is Bernard, Sheila, Ken, Edna, Marion, Harold, Celia and Anne. Bernard was one of seven children. In order, Enid (married George wright), Harold (married Marion), Ron (married Evelyn; they had seven kids of their own), Bernand (of course married Edna), Kenneth, Maurice (married Olive Ledbury) and Celia (married Paul Simpson).

The only one I remember at all (besides my grandparents) was Kenneth, or Uncle Ken. He was a teacher, who taught in Preston Grammar School for a while. He retired to Instow in Devon, and when I was small, we stayed with him every year.


Joseph and Jess Benson, Bernard's parents. He was a missionary in South Africa, where he met his wife, but had to return to England due to ill-health. Bernard was born on Johannesburg, the year before they returned; I suspect they were already in the process by then.


Kenneth, unknown, Ronald and Bernard at the back, Jess and Celia at the front.


This one was in an album a couple of pages after Celia's wedding, which dates it approximately. I think we see Celia, unknown, Joseph, Jessie, Ronald, Kenneth and Edna. It is likely Bernard was taking the photo.

The rest of this post is taken from two set of notes I found already typed up.
Some information from Aunty Olive and Uncle Maurice  collected by Viola K Benson in the summer of 1980 

Christopher Benson, commonly known as Kit, lived in Dacre Bank, near Patley  Bridge, in Nidderdale. He is the one who is known as the black sheep of the  family. He left Dacre Bank under a cloud and went to live in Halifax. No one  seems to know the nature of the cloud. Whether he was then married, or married  in Halifax I don't know, but three children were born to him in Halifax. Joseph was  the eldest, and is the father of Ronald Hill Benson, my father. Two more followed  but I don't know their order ... Tom and Mary.

Uncle Maurice was of the opinion that it was this Kit who married the Washington  and that her name was Sarah, but he was very vague. It could have been an earlier  generation which married the Washington. Anyway Kit deserted his wife and  children and fled to America. Many, many years later he came back again, a  changed character. Aunty Olive said that she had a recollection of seeing a picture  of him in a dog collar it seemed to her, but she never heard anything definite to that  effect, and admits that you can mistake pictures. His two sons refused to see him  or have anything to do with him, but his daughter Mary accepted him, and when  Aunty was talking to Mary's daughter Trissie she said the story had a different slant,  and that Kit was perhaps not the black character commonly supposed. It would be  very interesting to pursue this topic further, but Aunty didn't seem to remember  anything of what Trissie had said. Maybe she didn't. Maybe she just hinted. Was  great grandma Washington difficult to live with perhaps.

To go back a bit. When Kit deserted his family Joseph managed to get a job in a  local stores ... Hollingrake (Hollindrake?) and Clegg. He did very well. He had  planned to be a teacher but had to give up the idea. Some time later (he was now  a Local Preacher) it became evident that Joseph wanted to be, and would make a  good Minister, and the firm arranged for his brother Tom to take his place so that  Joseph could go to College. He trained at Richmond in Surrey. In 1883 he went  to Africa as a Methodist missionary. In the words of the obituary "during his third  year he was suddenly called out, and within a month had been ordained, and was on  the ship for South Africa." (Makes one wonder who had the call!!) In 1886 he  married Jessie Webb, at the Wesleyan chapel in Potchefstroom. It was August 10th  and the ceremony was performed by the Rev Thos. Wainwright and Rev Geo  Sheldon. The first five children were born in Africa, the first in 1887, but then ill  health and severe malaria made it necessary for him to return to England. The date  would have been between Jan 1894 and Sept 1894. It was fully expected that when  he was better he would return to Africa, but in fact he never did, and his wife never  saw her own people again.

Joseph had a series of Methodist Churches ... Manchester, Derby, Crewe,  Middlesborough (South Bank), Redditch, Hinckley, Kings Lynn (at the last three he  was the Superintendent). Health again made it necessary for him to give up being  a Super, so he went as second Minister to the Ilkley Circuit ... living at Addingham.  Four years later he took up full responsibility again at Knaresborough, but it was too  much and two years later he resigned. He was appointed as Super to Ryton-on-Tyne but again it proved too much. He went back to being a second Minister, this time  at Bingham, Nottingham. In November 1923 the doctor ordered him to give up  work entirely. He went to live in Redditch near Aunty Enid, and in the house  where I remember Aunty Celia and Grandma living. In July 1926 his health got  much worse and he died on 6th December 1927.

I guess he was quite a character. He loved to be with people and his hobbies were  astronomy and microscopy. Mother remembers him showing her all sorts of  interesting things under the microscope. Uncle Maurice also remembers his interest  in Motorbikes and says he used to take them to pieces in the drawing-room!!

Jessie Webb also has an interesting background. Her family were not missionaries  but settlers from right back in the days when South Africa was first settled by  whites. They went out in J820. Jessie's father was a Jonathan Webb, and he was  in training for a Methodist Minister ... possibly already a probationary Minister,  when he was sent on a journey of three months duration, to a far off area, to see if  the area should have a missionary station set up. During this journey he failed to  keep up his studies so was demoted. He gave up the Methodist Ministry and  trained to be a wheel-wright. He had not lost his calling though, and as well as his  work in the wheel-wright business he ran a church of his own. He married into  another settler family ... the Hills. They were not as well known as the Webbs.  Later on he inherited a farm called Hancock Grange, but Aunty Olive didn't seem  to know who it was that bequeathed it to him.

He had a lot of daughters and last a son, Aubrey. When grown up the son got in  with the Dutch it seems, who were creating somewhat, and didn't keep in touch with  his family, and no one seems to know anything further about him. Aunty is pretty  certain he didn't marry, or had no children if he did, and so the name would have  faded out there. Of Jonathan Webb's daughters one was drowned in a waddy (a dry  river bed). The water suddenly swept down as a group was crossing and this girl  was drowned. Two of the sisters names were Ada and Addie. A second cousin of  these girls used to correspond with Aunty Olive, but is now dead. Some years ago  another relative by marriage turned up. His name was Stanley Legrove Smith and  his wife was a Margaret Webb.

Joseph's brother Tom did very well at the business where he had taken over from  Joseph, and ended up a comfortably well off man. He had a lovely home in  Scarborough. When Joseph had to come home ill from Africa Tom helped him out  financially on more than one occasion I gather, and never asked for it back. In fact  he seems to have been a good friend of the family all through. 
The second set of notes were provided by Mrs AM Poole, a genealogist of Cory Library, Grahamstown, South Africa.
Dear Mr Benson

RESEARCH : WEBB AND BENSON FAMILIES

Thank you for your letter of 18 March 2004 enclosing your payment by Credit Card of 
23.00 pounds sterling, this being the appropriate fee for an extensive search of our 
records. I have now carried out a search for you, and have pleasure in reporting on the 
results.

The original 1820 Settler with the surname WEBB who came out to this country as a 
member of Pigot's Party, appears to have been called Charles rather than William. I 
enclose a photocopy of pp.106-7 of a work entitled The Settler Handbook : a new list of 
the 1820 Settlers compiled by M D Nash, and published in 1987 by the Chameleon Press, 
Cape Town. Pages 106-7 of this work contain an account of Pigot's Party, and you will 
see that your ancestor is listed as Charles Webb, 19. Wheelwright.

I have discovered that this Charles Webb was married on 25 December 1823 in 
Grahamstown to Sarah Wills. Their marriage record appears in a very early register of 
the Anglican Church, Grahamstown (our ref. MS 14 877/1). Unfortunately, this register 
is extremely fragile and cannot be subjected to a photocopier, but the early handwritten 
entry reads as follows, under the heading "Marriages at Graham's Town, Albany, Cape of 
Good Hope"

No.39 Charles Webb of the District of Albany, Bachelor and Sarah Wells of the District 
of Albany, Spinster were married in this Town by Bans this 25th day of December 1823 
by me Wm Geary Chaplain.

You will notice that William Geary has entered Sarah's surname spelt as Wells, but 
Charles and Sarah have both written their own names in the register underneath the above 
entry and Sarah definitely writes her surname as Wills. The witnesses' names appear to 
be John Biggs and Wm. Howard.

Although Charles Webb and Sarah Wills were married in the early Anglican Church in 
Grahamstown, they appear to have become Methodists later on, and their son Jonathan 
Webb who was apparently born on 24 October 1835, was, in fact, baptized in the 
Methodist Church in this city, and I enclose a certified photocopy of his baptismal record 
which appears in the original Baptismal register of the Methodist Church, Grahamstown 
(our ref. MS 15 899/1). You will see from the entry no.565 that Charles Webb's 
profession has been entered as Painter, and that Jonathan was apparently baptized on 22 
November 1835 by R Haddy.

Your forebear Jonathan Webb was married to Matilda Ann Hill on 20 March 1861 in the 
Methodist Church, Grahamstown, and I enclose a certified photocopy of this record 
which appears in the original Marriage register in our keeping (our ref. MS 15 900/1). 
You will see from the entry no.453 that Jonathan Webb's profession has been entered as 
Wagon Maker, and that consent for Matilda to marry him, under the age of 21, was 
apparently given by her father'John Hill of Graham's Town. Jonathan and Matilda have 
both signed their own names, and the witnesses on this occasion appear to be John Hill 
and Jessie Hill, and the ceremony was conducted by J Richards.

I have managed to trace three children born to Jonathan and Matilda Webb in 
Grahamstown, but after 1864, this family must have moved elsewhere, as I cannot find 
any further entries in the records we hold. The three children I have traced in the original 
Baptismal register of the Methodist Church, Grahamstown (our ref. MS 15 899/3 are :

 1. Evelyn Webb, born 12 March 1862, baptized 13 April 1862 (entry no.1342)
 2. Rowland Hill Webb, born 21 August 1863, baptized 23 September 1863 (entry 
   no.1434)
 3. Jessie Webb, born 20 September 1864, baptized 6 November 1864 (entry 
   no.1517).

As the third child listed above, is, in fact, your paternal grandmother, I include a certified 
photocopy of this record.

By great good fortune, I have also managed to trace the marriage record of your 
grandparents Joseph George Benson and Jessie Webb, and I enclose a certified 
photocopy of this record which appears in the original Marriage register of the Methodist 
Church, Potchefstroom (our ref. MS 17 322/1). You will see from the entry no.42 that 
your grandparents were married by Thomas H Wainman, the Minister in charge of the 
Potchefstroom (English) Circuit which at that time fell under the Transvaal and 
Swaziland District of the Methodist Church.

Although we are fortunate enough to hold this early Marriage register for Potchefstroom 
in our library, we unfortunately do not hold any relevant Baptismal records. The earliest 
Baptismal register we hold for the Potchefstroom (English) Circuit only begins in
November 1897, which is too late to include any entries of children born to Joseph 
George and Jessie Benson as according to the Minutes of Conference of the Wesleyan 
Methodist Church, 1928, your grandfather had returned to England by this time.

I enclose a photocopy of p.102 of the Minutes of Conference, as it contains an obituary 
(no.24) for Joseph G Benson, who it seems served in this country between 1883 and 
1894. Your grandfather's last appointment in South Africa appears to have been in 
Johannesburg where he was stationed with the Transvaal Mission of the Methodist 
Church.

Again, by good fortune, we happen to hold an original Baptismal register of the Central 
Methodist Mission, Johannesburg (our ref. PR 4739, von.) in which I have found an 
entry for Bernard Benson who must have been the last child born in this country before 
the departure of your grandparents in 1894. I enclose a certified photocopy of the entry  
no.145 from which you will see that Bernard was apparently born on 7 May 1893, and 
baptized on 26 July 1893 by R F Appelbe, who was also stationed in Johannesburg at that 
time.

I enclose a receipt for your payment of 23 pounds Sterling, and do hope that the 
information I am sending you will be of interest and help in your research of your family 
history.

With kind regards, 

Yours sincerely

(Mrs) A M Poole
There are some details of "Pigot's Party" on-line, and you can see Charles Webb listed. It looks like he was an indentured servant; he paid his fare to South Africa by promising labour for perhaps 10 years.

Edna's Family

Trying to match names to faces...


This is Edna's side of the family. Bernard at the back, then from the left, Monica, Evelyn, Maurice, Edna, Anne, Granny Young (Elizabeth, nee Osbourne), Grandpa Young (Philip). Dated ca. 1930, before Sheila was born, at their house in Ilford.

Maurice was Edna's brother; he was married to Evelyn, with Monica their daughter.

we will get back to them, but first I want to look at the Portuguese connection...

My great, great, great, great grandfather was Joseph Antonio Dos Santos (born 1783 in Portugal, possible José; died Mar 1839 in Gloucestershire). Family legend says he sailed a ship from Porto up the River Severn, where it run aground near Gloucester. He settled there, set up business importing port and married a local girl. It is also said he played a hand in establishing a port at Gloucester.

So that is the legend.... I came across this interest excerpt from a book about the clay tobacco pipe making industry in Bath:
By early 1836 the Bridewell Lane factory had been taken over by Joseph Sants. His father, Joseph Antonio Dos Santos, had been a Portuguese wine merchant until his ship the Tres Reis arrived damaged at Gloucester in 1803, after which he married a local girl and settled in the city before taking up pipemaking himself. 
That has to be our Joseph Dos Santos, even if his industry is different. See also here, and here. From the latter:
Joseph Sants, son of Gloucester 's Portugal-born pipemaker Joseph Antonio Dos Santos, took over the Bridewell Lane business in 1836, moving it to Milk Street in 1851 to join his already flourishing pottery business. After the closure of the Avon Street factory in 1860, the Sants made all of Bath's pipes; widow Sarah was followed by sons Edwin and Waiter, the latter running the business after Joseph's death until its eventual closure in 1916. 
Pretty sure that should be Walter, not Waiter! Our ancestor was Walter's sister, Sarah. 

It sounds as though Joseph Dos Santos owned his own ship, and would use it to bring wine (and port?) to England for sale, then return to Portugal. On this one trip the ship ran aground, and was too badly damaged to be repaired, so he was stuck in Gloucester, and had to make the best of it.

Sarah Sants is top left in this photo, which dates from about 1900:


From the writing on the reverse, Granny Young (i.e., Sarah Young, nee Sants), Granny Osbourne (i.e., Elizabeth Osbourne, mother of Elizabeth Osbourne) and Kitty at the back. The writing is less clear for the front row, but might be Tom Bunting (a Loftus Kendrew Bunting witnessed Granny Osbourne's wedding), Dorothy Bechy(?) and Uncle Maurice. Besides Uncle Maurice, no idea who the other people are.

Back to Sarah Sants... She married Philip C Young, who ran a successful pawnbrokers, also in Bath. I think this is the two of them (it could be their son with his wife, but I think she looks like "Granny Young" above).


Their son, Philip William Young set up his own pawnbrokers in Redditch, I guess after he married Elizabeth Osbourne, as the Osbournes were also from Bath.


This is 2 Somerset House, Wells Road, Bath, where Granny Osbourne lived, between the wars; it was destroyed in WW2. It was also home to Jane Osbourne, it is not clear which Elizabeth Jane was the sister of, but I guess the younger one. She was a witness to the wedding of the younger, which further makes me think her sister. This is the famous (in the family) "Auntie Jo", who would would sit at the table before the meal was ready.

We have a set of professionally done photos by a photographer based in Bath.





Unfortunately none are labelled, but that is "Granny Osbourne" at the top, and I think the second is "Kitty".

This one is from Redditch, so might be Elizabeth Osbourne (the daughter of "Granny Osbourne", who was also Elizabeth):


Philip and Elizabeth had two children, Edna and Maurice. The parents seem to have had a thing for dressing their kids up for twee photos. The first is not too bad.


But...

And...

This is Edna with, I think her grandfather Philip C Young (the father of the "Grandpa Young" in the first photo; could be her father, Philip William Younbg). Some serious boots she is wearing.



Hmm, maybe it is her father. Edna lived at 276 Mount Pleasant, Redditch, as her business card tells us. The house is still there.


Maurice as an adult. I have to assume the bowtie is his own choice at this stage.


He is with his daughter Monica to the left. Not sure who the girl next to him is; not Anne or Sheila as far as I can see.

A few years later Monica would contract polio, and spend some two years in hospital, Great Ormond Street as well as another, much of it on a iron. When she eventually left hospital, it was in a wheelchair. She nevertheless managed to lead a full life, and had her own car at a time when it was not that usual for able-bodied people; she painted and was an active member of her church, singing in the choir. I have to respect her indominable will!




Sunday, September 25, 2022

Bernard and Edna

This page officially starts in 1920 and goes up to around the start of WW2.

After the war, Bernard completed his degree; he was awarded a War Degree of Bachelor of Science as an external student on 18/May/1920 from the University of London. He became certified as a teacher 01/Sep/1920, but I do not know if he actually did any more teaching.


Meanwhile Edna was excelling at music, and in 1921 was award a Licentiate from the Royal Academy of Music for playing the pianoforte playing, which qualified her to teach it too.


She appears to have lived at 276 Mount Pleasant up until she married. Te house is still there.

At some point, Bernard got a job at the patent office. Before they married, he was in a house in Ilford, 18 Brandville Gardens, the house Anne and Sheila would later be born in. It looks like it would be pretty new in 1925, and I am guessing he was therefore working at the patent office by now, and he bought the house with a view to settle there with his new wife.

We have a letter Edna sent him just before they married (30/Jun/1925). She does not come across as quite as eloquent as Bernard, but in fairness in the context she was writing about trivialities - and she uses paragraphs far better!

276 Mount Pleasant

Redditch

June 30th 1925


My Dear Bernard

I am sending you the key of that box just in case the railwaymen have any lock on it. if so will you unfasten it and take out my two coats if you have time please. If you are rushed do not worry about it for they will only get a bit creased. The box left here yesterday afternoon may it arrive whole. The top part of it is quite truthful.

Thank you for your letter. I'm glad you have finished with the dentist today and lost that toothache.

Nothing particular has happened here. I have had several letters. Evelyn writes to say she may be able to come after all. Maurice says almost the same and is not going to decide what time he is coming until he hears more from Evelyn.

My Coventry Aunt still intends to come, so it seems as though my guests are coing up to scratch after all. I'm rather glad and I'm going ti ask the Auntie to stop a day or two to keep mother company afterwards.

My other Aunt has sent me a cheque instead of the spoons and forks. She says I shall be able to get just what I like. That is what everyone seems to think isn't it?

I went to town this morning, Redditch town I mean, and brought sme new shoes, pretty ones! since dinner I have been cleaning out my summer house. Isn';t that a mad thing to do when I ought to be in the house sewing[? or saving?]. But it was a much nicer job, and we made friends with a small robin in the garden. A cheeky little thing almost tame enough to eat from our hands I fed him on a few crumbs and sent him home.

After that I attended to my letters and I have only one more to write now.

I can't think of anything else I want to tell you. Everything seems to be going on is a satisfactory manner this end. I hope it is the same with you.

Now its teatime so I must stop. We are both going to excuse hasty letters this week aren't we.

You loving

Edna

The wedding was 6th July 1925

We have a couple of photos from weddings that have been photocopied and then annotated, and some with writing on the the back, allowing several people to be identified. The wedding is our Rosetta Stone! Note that both Bernard and Edna, had a brother called Maurice. 

We start with Edna and Bernard. Edna is the one sat down. That was easy!


Edna and Bernard's wedding again, I guess now sat on the bench visible at the right in the earlier photo. On the back row, Joseph and his wife Jess (Bernard's parents), Maurice Benson, Elizabeth and Phillip Young (Edna's parents). At the front, Kenneth (Bernard brother, and perhaps the best man), Bernard, Edna and Celia (Bernard's sister, and I guess the pridesmaid).



Even more people added to the scene. The back row now is Ronald (another brother of Bernard), Evaline (Ronald's wide), Joseph, Jess, Maurice, Elizabeth and Phillip Young, unknown and George Wright (husband of Enid). The front row is unknown, Kenneth, Bernard, Edna, Celia and Enid (another sister).

The notes I have do not mention the children! Maurice's children were born later. Ronald had seven, while Enid and Celia had one a piece; I am going to guess there are Ronald's oldest, Jonathon and Viola.

For the honeymoon, they stayed at a hotel called the "Dudley", on Capstone Street, in Ilfracombe. Apparently they drove there - they cannot have been many cars on the roads at the time.


Which leads us to this photo, which has the caption "July 13. No. 5, The Dudley":


Bernard is the guy wearing a tie on the right, Edna is just to his left. Quite why all these people are here I cannot say.


Another car; Edna and Bernard are second row, right side of the car. Do not recognise anyone else.




Edna and Bernard, with Anne in a pushchair.

Shortly after Sheila was born, the family moved to 17 Highfield Way, part of Metroland, and markets on the basis that it was close to Ricky station, which is only 26 minutes from Baker Street. How times change... Just 90 years later, and it takes only 32 minutes. Yes, trains today are slower today than they were 90 years ago.


We have a shed load of photos of Anne and Sheila, but thus is a nice one of them on holiday, to finish the post.


We have a rather odd letter from Bernand's youngest sibling, Celia. It is not dated, but it from after Sheila was born.

Hall Cottage
Langley
Maccesfield

My Dear Both

Are you feeling quite fit and are the children safe for a moment? Because I have a shock in store. Its useless to beat abot the bush or try toi break it gently. I have gotten myself engaged to one Jim Simpson - probationary[?] minister from Studley - here I am visiting his home, as witness the above address!

There were many reasons for my not saying anything about this matter before - all of which I will explain some other time, but suffice it to say that I have not forgotten what I said when with you last concerning my having to be very far gone before I would marry a minister it is alas! all too true and as Dr Dow deliveried his formible[?]  vendich[???, a sermon maybe] a week or two since there didn't seem anything to do but tell other people the news only of course I've not much time for writing at present, you understand.

I can't presently begin to tell you everything just now as this is just a short note because I just wanted you to know, don't you see?

I haven't managed to write to Harold and Marian yet, and shan't tell Olive and Maurice until their wedding is out of the way - they think like a lot of others, that I'm in Oakly[?] - but I changed all that!! I came here with Paul - (I couldn't call him Jim 'cos I don't like it, so I just Christened him with a name I do like) on his new bike - by name Lizzie[? or dizzy?] - last mon. morning early, having spent the week out with Girtie.

We went for a gorgeous turn[???] through the moors around about yesterday - and the afore mentioned Lizzie was not well behaved so Paul and his father[?or brother?] have her to bits (in a thoroughly Benson style) in the backyard  and hence the time for this letter to you.

Paul's people are along[?or away?] nice - real old somewhat crusty Methodists - ??? and ??? but quite uneducated. Paul has had to make his own way all along you see, and has not had an easy time, as you may well imagine.

When we go to Ireland next week he will join us at Heyshaw, complete with Lizzie - Ron hollered with delight another mo. bike on the horizon needless to say! They were amazed at my tidings and immediately followed up by thanking me for arranging a meeting by bringing him with us!!

Mother likes Paul quite a bit already and is very pleased about it all now she's got over the shock, and Enid is very pleased though she hasn't met Paul very often and Ken is delighted and he liked what little he saw of Paul and will see more of him in Ireland of course,

I think I shall go up and see your mother before we leave for Ireland, Edna, only I haven't let the town know as yet - of course I thought the other wedding could get over first, however if you come to tell him in just letters and ask him not to pass in on, it will be alright.

I've a horrid dread of congratulations - so silly - still there it is, and I part hate he idea of everyone chewing it over as the latest sensation.

I think if from ??? any more about it ??? better write and ask questions and I'll answer them - but I'll ??? ??? from a bref description ???. before I drink a dish[?] of tea which is in the making I see - oh I get such lots and lots of cups of tear here, its lovely!

Paul - aged 29 years (19 days my senior) ??? - 6ft high - quite handsome - ???, nearly bald - large mouth - nce expression - can't think of anyhung else to say so I'll stop now.

I shall be here until Sat. (in case you should write), and then home till the Wed  following.

Give my love to Anne and Sheila - if the shock is too great try bromide.

Lots of love

From Celia
I am not sure when Maurice's wedding was, but from the above, I guess the thirties.


This looks to be from the wedding, and they seem to have used pygmies for the bridesmaids (okay, maybe they are kneeling). Edna and Bernard are stood behind the bride; I think Edna's parents are are the two to the left, suggesting quite a strong connection between the Benson's and the Youngs. Is that Celia, the bridesmaid on the left?


I think this is the same wedding. The photo is not good, but you can see Celia in front of the bride. I do not recognise anyone else.

This will be Celia's wedding (some damage to the original). The smallest bridesmaid might be Anne.


Celia ended up in Redditch, but it sound like that was after Edna had left.

Enid (I think it was) at some point ended up in an impressive house called the Forge in Redditch, and it become something of a meeting place for the Benson family. I think the house passed to Stanley Wright, Enid's son, and his wife, Jo. I think she remarried about 1990 to George Fisher, and so it fell out of the family, however I did visit once, around 2000.


In the next post we will look in more detail at Edna's family, and then move on to Bernard's family.



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